Hello all. As I am in the same predicament as several of you I don't have any cash to hand out but I know of different ways you can aquire aid. I hope this is helpful. Alot of states do an adopt a family for holidays if you are looking for presents for your children. To get on lists call local churches, salvation armies, and even the department of human services. The department of human services is a huge resource of help because if they can't help you they will refer you to other programs that can. I didn't qualify for cash assisstance but they helped me find programs for gas grants, lower electric bills, locations of food and clothing banks in my area and alot more. I hope you all find what you and your families need. As far as getting out of debt, I'm still at a loss. When I find a way out of that I'll let you all know.